And in most cases, that is also why I say it like is - yet another reason - why I put 'myself' out there, which most people CANNOT handle - raw and unfiltered.
Most people need to hear it like it is.
I have lost track of the number of people who can dish it out - but when the shoe is on the other foot, they go "silent" and wont listen.
Happened recently with my friend Ricky, when I told him a few home truths, he instantly put me on "block" on his IM - which is otherwise always open to calls (of course, no texts and audios, because he doesnt prefer it - I made an exception in his case from my own very rigid "NO calls" policy I have, but eventually that dam was bound to burst, and it did).
Ricky will probably get over it.
But on the list, on another business of mine, the first thing I check in the mornings when I wake up ain't necessarily the number of sales.
It's the unsubscribes and nasty emails Iget. Hehe.
Yes, you heard me.
I actually enjoy these more than you'd think - reasons?
Well, first off, they lead to more sales.
Which in itself is a mind bender for most people, but if you know how to use peoples negativity against them - Bozo Glyn being one prime example and his alter on Amazon (after getting blocked twice) "Keith James" - but they ain't the only ones - it literally makes the cash register ring and often instantaneously - has happened to me EVERY time without fail.
So much so that I feel JOY upon getting a negative review as well!
Not it it's logically written out or warranted, of course, that is genuine feedback, I'm referring to idiotic trolling of the nature ya'll saw in the last emai Isent you.
Back to it though - unsubscribes, you'd think ("especially these days" I hear people saying) - people would be shit scared of them, right?
I never was either, though admittedly I didnt know why I wasn't before, I just did it via gut.
But today, if you were to ask me?
Many people ask me why I delete people outright off my list, off my wechat, my life, everything.
No second chances, they ask?
Well, second chances work sometimes - there is no one size fits all, but in a biz like "dis here"?
When people leave, it's usually because they cannot handle my brutally frank nature, they can't handle facts, they can't handle warranted criticism - and most of all, of course, they can't stomach the idea of someone selling to them daily.
Gasp, how dare I "sell"!!!!!!! That aggressive evil, me!
But I do.
And won't stop doing it - as far as "times are concerned", to me, it's men's thinking that shapes times, and there ain't nothing different about today than there was 10 years ago, except the BS human beings have created with their own negative thoughts, happens every few decades or so eh. HA!
Now, I suppose I could segement them into another list, send them flowery emails about "please tell me why you left" and such ...
I'm not saying that won't work for others.
But for me, I've found if people leave for those reasons, it's best to say bye permanently, otherwise it will keep rankling - both for them and you.
Something better will replace it - both for you- and them. Trust me, I've seen it happen all the time!
Last, though I'm sure there are other reasons - TORPOR of any nature is something Rahul Mookerjee cannot stand, never has.
If it's boring, ain't nothing happen, chances are nothing will sales wise or in your life either.
I'd rather people leave a list than sit on it and do nothing. At least they're taking SOME action!
And same thing workout wise, if people get on my workouts , then decide they're too tough or whatever, writ eback saying "I'll get to it later" or so forth - in most cases, I want nothing more to do with these people, because they dont get it, and likely never will.
Maybe an odd gem or two amongst the rabble, but thats the extent of it, I've found.
A lot of you reading this here email have been fence sitters in terms of purchases.
And it's time to shape up or ship out - if you're only on here for free emails, please leave - no hard feelings, my friend .
If you're a doer, by all means stay - after you PROVE yourself to be.
And thats that.
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